Is Your Partner Cheating?? Here's How to Find Out
#15 Trust Your Instincts
There are hundreds of subtle signs that will implicitly tip you off that your partner is cheating. If something feels wrong, it's very likely is wrong.
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Trust Your Instincts
There are hundreds of subtle signs that will implicitly tip you off that your partner is cheating. If something feels wrong, it's very likely is wrong.
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Watch... Very Carefully
After you've listened to your instincts, start to watch, very carefully. Is there a new friend? A new routine? Why?
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Look for the Signs
Not receiving as many texts? Calls? Are there secret telephone conversations? Catch a lie? Lots of screen time on the computer? These are all bad signs.
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Have a General Talk About Infidelity...
Is your partner defensive? Try to turn the tables on you? Angry? Why? Might be a guilty conscious.
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Say "I Love You"
Does your partner return the comment? Mumble something? Avoid eye contact? What's the problem? Perhaps it's infidelity.
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Check Your Partner's Browser History
What's your partner looking for? Bisexual hook ups? The old down low? BDSM? Dating sites? Perhaps your partner is in the mood for some experimentation ... just not with you.
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Focus on the relationship...
... not the cheating. What's wrong with the relationship? Are you spending "quality time" together? Making plans for the future? Do you enjoy each others' company or dread getting together because it leads to just another fight? Figure it out!
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Talk to the Friends
Don't ask, "Is he having an affair." Instead, ask about your partner's regular activities. Are they mumbling? Avoiding eye contact? Appear to be covering up? Most likely they are.
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Ask About Specific People You Suspect
Does your partner suddenly become defensive, slip into inconsistencies, avoid the discussion all together? Why that? Infidelity.
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Track History
If your partner has cheated before, there's an 2.5 increase likelihood they will cheat again. So why are you sticking around?
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Picks Fights
Your partner's guilty conscious is probably doing a real number on their behavior. It's probably making them cranky and irritable ... and they're starting to pick fights for no good reason at all.
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"I love you, but I'm not in love with you."
This is the line that signals THE END. People who say this probably don't know what love is in the first place and are so over you that they're at 1,000 feet. So, just resolve to get over it, stick a fork in it and move along, there's nothing to see.
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Sudden Need for Privacy
Why? Why the long, solitary walks? Why, oh why? Why the sudden interest in new team sports that don't include you? Your partner probably isn't taking up meditation. Instead, your partner is yearning for some two-time, not alone time.
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"Working Late"
Is your partner working long hours to earn a new promotion? Is there a sudden new flood of paperwork that has to be done? Yeah. Right. Odds are your partner wants something more than a good employee review.
