How to Make Him Like You
#14 Don't Try Too Hard
Going the extra mile can be helpful in some situations, but when you’ve got your eye on a guy try not to push it over the edge. You were given what you have for a reason, so why change it?
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15:
Take The Initiative
The key is to know the difference between being flirty and bossy. Of course, one has more perks than the other. Take it from us.. guys can’t stay away from a girl who knows what she’s doing.
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Don't Try Too Hard
Going the extra mile can be helpful in some situations, but when you’ve got your eye on a guy try not to push it over the edge. You were given what you have for a reason, so why change it?
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Listen
Don’t always make things about you. He wants to ensure that you’ll also be there for him when he needs you, so try to open up your ears more instead of your mouth.
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Pay Attention To The Little Things
Be specific and precise in what you’re picking up from the guy you have your eye on. If there’s something you know he doesn’t like, then don’t do it.
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Don't Put Him Before Your Friends
What may seem like a string of jealousy coming from your friends may actually not be directed towards the relationship you’re trying to pursue but the guy who has all your attention. Don’t get so caught up in your feelings you forget what and who really matters. Guys can come and go, but your friends are always there.
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Be Calm
Avoid trying to be that freakishly annoying girl always wondering what “he’s” doing or thinking, and let him come to you.
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Don't Be Afraid To Be His Friend
A lot of long-term relationships begin with a friendship, so you’ll never know where you two will end up. But, also keep in mind that your friendship may be fragile. Don’t do anything to jeopardize that.
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Keep An Open Mind
Not everything is always going to work in your favor, so remember to never let it show when things work against you.
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Give It Time
Every guy needs his space. Give your guy some breathing room to contemplate whether or not he feels the same for you. In the mean time, try picking up a book or getting more involved with something you like to do.
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Use Common Interests to Real Em In
Nothing makes a stronger connection than finding honest to god similarities between you and the guy of your dreams. And no, we’re not talking about things you “think” you enjoy because he does. This is key to building a fresh start and developing the trust that every relationship needs.
5:
Smile
Be proud of the skin you’re in and let everyone around you know it! Not literally of course, but letting others see you have something to smile about can go a long way with a guy. Showing those pearly whites may even get you noticed.
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Be Funny
Every guy loves a sense of humor in a girl. Think about it, who wants to be stuck with a girl who takes things so seriously all of the time? It doesn’t hurt to lighten the mood sometimes.
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Be Kind
Despite that “sass” that every girl has in her, it’s a no brainer that guys don’t take a liking to girls who are rude and snotty on the regular. Just be cool and know how to wow people by showing a sweeter side of you.
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Be Confident
Nothing’s as important as believing in who you are. Be comfortable in the skin you’re in and the guy of your dreams will follow in your footsteps. You are the priority.
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Be Yourself
Remember, you’re amazing just they way you are. Trying to be too much of this and too much of that can get you in trouble, and it’s way more attractive to a guy when you aren’t afraid to take credit for who you are. Chances are if you don’t see what you have to offer then neither will they.
