15 Signs to Check if Your Best Friend is Hitting on Your Boyfriend

#15 She only wants to hang out when you're with him

 
Women are sneaky, there's no getting around it. Be on the lookout for the BFF who's too "busy" to get together for a mani/pedi date but who comes running when it's "mixed company."
 

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15: She only wants to hang out when you're with him
Women are sneaky, there's no getting around it. Be on the lookout for the BFF who's too "busy" to get together for a mani/pedi date but who comes running when it's "mixed company."
14: Hair flipping
A woman playing with her hair is a tell-tale sign that she's into someone. If no other men are around but your boyfriend, guess who her sights are on?
13: She's getting touchy
People touch what they like and want, whether it's a sweater at the store, a cute puppy, or your boyfriend. Keep an eye out for "casual" shoulder or leg touching.
12: She texts him
Why does she have his number to start with? Have a talk with both of them and nip this in the bud.
11: She puts you down in front of him
Does it seem like your friend is all smiles and charms when you're alone, but the minute your boyfriend's around she changes? Subtle put downs, even if she's "joking," are a red flag.
10: She's looking her best
This is the same girl who comes over to your place sans makeup, in yoga pants, with her hair in a ponytail. If she knows your boyfriend's going to be around and comes over looking like a MAC drive by victim, something might be up.
9: She sits up a little straighter
Not all women are shameless, but you have to watch out for the quiet ones. A friend that fixes her posture, suddenly crosses her legs, or moves her body to face your boyfriend might have something up her sleeve.
8: She encourages you and your boyfriend to drink
Unless she's usually such a party animal, she may be drinking to loosen everyone's inhibitions to improve her chances (and hope you won't remember).
7: She puts herself down
Is the girl who's so full of confidence suddenly in need of reassurance when your boyfriend's around? This might be her way of making him compliment her to show him how great she thinks she is.
6: There's no more "date nights"
You used to love inviting your friend along every now and then, but suddenly she's the permanent tag along. It's time to loose the training wheel.
5: She lets him pay
At first you were proud that your guy was so considerate and paid for your friends drinks when you were out. But suddenly it seems like she expects it. Let his chivalry be for you alone.
4: She dances dirty with him
Sure, it's all in fun, but there's a reason so many fights break out in clubs. Keep the dancing PG.
3: She sits next to him
Sometimes it's unavoidable, but if you find yourself feeling like the third wheel it's time to put your foot down.
2: She laughs a little louder
Everyone knows that the way to a man's heart isn't through his stomach, it's through his funny bone. If she guffaws a little too much when he makes a joke, you may be onto something.
1: She tells you
Some women are really blunt. If she flat out tells you she's into your boyfriend, believe her. And dump her STAT.